On many East Asian calendars, 2018 is the Year of the Dog. Humans are sometimes compared to or called dogs – either as a compliment or as an insult. Dogs are considered by many to be “man’s best friend” – yet are popular with women, too (sometimes more than men are). (more…)
‘Relation-ship’ Category
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Year of the Dog – Language of Love
February 19, 2018 by Oren Pardes
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Following
July 25, 2016 by Oren Pardes
FOLLOWING a partner requires doing what the LEADER does – EVEN when it is NOT what the follower expects, desires, or is used to – and MUCH of the problem many people have dancing together is really the fault of the FOLLOWER (who often really does NOT know how to follow – (more…)
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Relationship Priorities: Who comes FIRST?
July 21, 2016 by Oren Pardes
WHO cones FIRST? The chicken or the egg? The male or the female? Women and children? Customers? God, Country, Corps? Partner or parent? Spouse or offspring? Self or others?
Who comes FIRST seems to be controversial question regarding relationship priorities – but it should not be. (more…)
Category Leader-ship, Marriage, Partner-ship, Relation-ship | Tags: putting others first,relationship priorities,who comes first,who should come first | No Comments
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Essential Components in Learning a New Dance
April 25, 2016 by Oren Pardes
Category Dancing, Follower-ship, Leader-ship | Tags: essential components in learning any dance,social dancing | No Comments
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Dance as Yoga
April 3, 2015 by Oren Pardes
“Yoga” means “union”. There are many “kinds” of yoga – and many methods, teachings, and techniques to create, achieve, or strengthen “union” – of body and mind and of self and Self (The Divine/Universe) or partner/family/community/relationship, and/or anything “greater” than (one’s own perception/expression/experience of) self. Yoga is often about being “mindful” about ourselves and others even when most “mindless” – seeking “selfless” self-fulfillment. (more…)
Category Dancing, Relation-ship | Tags: Connection,Dancing,Yoga | 2 Comments
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What Might Dancing Reveal About YOUR Life?
January 26, 2014 by Oren Pardes
Is Life (like) a Dance? If so, do people live the “rest” of their lives the way they dance? Do YOU? (more…)
Category Dancing, Living, Relation-ship | Tags: Business,Dance,Life,Relationships | No Comments
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Watch Your Ps and Fs
October 3, 2012 by Oren Pardes
A woman of virtue and valor is worth more than rubies, emeralds, sapphires, or diamonds. (more…)
Category Relation-ship | Tags: 3 Fs,3 Ps,BITCH,Men,Relationships,Women | No Comments
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Framed?
August 14, 2012 by Oren Pardes
Most women want to look good – and most do. But sometimes, trying to look good, especially while dancing with a partner, does not look good at all. Female dancers who are told that they are the “picture” and the male the “frame” often don’t seem to understand they must also provide part of the the frame – and that how they look and the picture they make doesn’t look good if they don’t stay “framed” by their partners. (more…)
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Your Share Includes Taking Care of Yourself
July 12, 2012 by Oren Pardes
Marriage is not a 50/50 proposition; it’s at least 60/60 (but may sometimes feel like to each like it’s 90/10). For a relationship to be even close to “equal”, each person has to do a little more than what he or she thinks his or her share is. (more…)
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54 Relationship Traps
July 11, 2012 by Oren Pardes
Personal relationships involve two (or more) people. We are always dealing with one person’s action and the other person’s reaction, a behavior and a perception, one’s error in sending messages and the other’s error in receiving them. (more…)
Category Relation-ship | Tags: Relationship Traps | 1 Comment